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How To Choose Your Own Adventure

Post written by Laura Cococcia. You can follow Laura on Twitter.

Last week, I posted a poll to find out about the last thing you did that was truly adventurous.

Yes, I am an adventure addict, so talking about it makes me want to climb a big fat mountain.

But there was a reason for the poll. I had recently found a super cool liberal Catholic church (who knew?) and went there to check it out. The sermon was about Advent, the 4-week period of time leading up to the Christmas holiday.

And the priest took an interesting turn. He encouraged us not to think about this necessarily as a ‘religious’ time, but as a time for Advent-ure. Rather than simply reflect on the importance of the season for the Christian world, he asked us to think about the root of the word – a “coming into being.” A beginning.

Adventure means different things to different people. For me, it sums up the spirit of how I try to live my life – bold, sometimes risky, always exciting. Ali Hale, the brilliant creator of Aliventures, recently wrote a marvelous roundup post reflecting on her 2009 adventures and lessons learned.

Poll Results: Here’s What You Had to Say

Kim (@cbcreatives): Hiring a car driving off on the wrong side of the road with no destination, just a vague direction. It was a great trip.

Kellie (@kmwalsh): In 2007 & 2008, I helped a group of strangers transport a flag around the world. You can read all about it here.

Danielle (@daniellecoco): Start a new company – WELL out of my comfort zone and something I’ve never done before! [Laura’s note: Danielle is my sister. I’m really proud of her!]

Ciki (@Agentcikay): I am totally scared of heights. When I heard that my husband’s friends, Julien Repellin and Azlan Idrus of Skytrex Adventure had created an unusual high elements adventure in the Bukit Cahaya Seri Alam Agricultural Park (Taman Pertanian Shah Alam) located in Malaysia, I just had to go and see about conquering my acrophobia. It’s high, and pretty damn scary. I had to go back TWICE before I actually completed the route!  You can read about it here.

Chip: I used to have lots of adventures, then for some reason I stopped ‘adventurizing’ and started worrying and settling and all of those terrible things that suck the life out of you. Recently I started to get back on the right path, and I’m happy to find other intrepid adventurers wandering around out here in the world. Determined to do at least SOMETHING before my 40th birthday (its been 10 years since my last real adventure) I hopped on my bike a few weeks back with a friend and went for a little ride. It wasn’t much, but it was a start. You can read about it here.

Emiel: To me adventure means traveling. My wife and I love to travel, especially to Asia. Now our two kids are 5 and 8 years and we decided we could take them along on some adventure travel. We went to Thailand last July: Bangkok (now that is a real adventure!), Khao Sok National Park and 2 beautiful islands Koh Samui and Koh Phangan. The culture, the heat, the life on the street, the beauty of nature: a real adventure for us!

Lissa: A bit before the lawsuit and during those days of becoming a softly powerful woman, I became an artist of words. Yes! Wonderful creative stuff that I hung on my walls and covered myself with at night. I say, “I found my creativity” but, this is not true and I know it. A tiny little witch who introduced herself as Ms. Muse, is the one who gave me huge round chalk and said, “Write a poem and fill it with all the words you want to say. Then write another poem on top of that first poem and fill this second layer with words you don’t want to say.” And, I did! Over and over, word on word and layer on layer.

When I ran out of words the only thing on the paper was. . .dare I say, art! Yes. This is my greatest adventure and it happened not too long ago. After Ms. Muse hung the first word layered print– Negative Vibrations– on my living room wall, I lost my job. A year later, we, Ms. Muse and I, hung our art prints in a small, cozy coffee shop. And, OMG, that was a real holler of an adventure. The very outrageous fact of this story is, I have my old mean boss to thank! And, truly, I am most grateful for our experience together.

As I Flip The Page

I’m reading these and thinking about my own adventures. I’ve got plenty, many of which are captured here on the site. And I’ve got many planned for 2010.

But the key: all of us have different definitions of adventure  - from climbing a mountain to walking down a new street. For me, it matters most that I‘try’ something out of my comfort zone – and through that, I get a new beginning every time.

No matter which adventure I choose.

Many thanks to all above who responded. You are amazing explorers.

If you didn’t have the opportunity to answer the poll last week, here’s your chance: What’s the last thing you did that was truly adventurous? As always, comments are welcome below.

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A Story of Strength, A Cause For Hope

Guest post by Lisa Frank. You can follow Lisa on Twitter and find out more about what she’s up to on her blog.

I am intrigued that a location or a song can remind me of a loved one so much that I can almost feel their presence.

The sewing room in my parents’ home holds much more than fabric and books. On the back wall hangs a meticulously pieced quilt and the sewing machine is always at the ready. Bookcases overflow with design books collected over a lifetime of creating handmade items.

I can walk into the room, close my eyes and immediately feel connected to my mom – crafting is her passion. Over the last three years and through her frequent hospitalizations, this room has also become my refuge. Sometimes I pray, sometimes I cry and other times I just run my hands over the last things she touched. Amidst all what to me is the essence of my mom, I have to face one undeniable fact: my mom has cancer and a cure is not in sight.

Nothing in life prepares you for the illness of someone you love and the moment of diagnosis becomes forever ingrained in your mind. In the fall of 2006 my mom was diagnosed with myelofibrosis , an extremely rare form of cancer that impacts only 1-2 people in every hundred thousand. Our lives now play out on either side of that diagnosis – the before and the after.

Life in the after has involved many difficult times, such as seeing my mom persevere through, among other things, a splenectomy, chemotherapy and a bone marrow transplant. The times have been gracious as well. I will never again underestimate the strength of both of my parents and I will always treasure seeing the way my father has cared for my mom.

Finding A Cause For Hope

Given the opportunity, I would love for my mom to not be ill. While that is not possible and I often feel helpless, I find strength and purpose in channeling my energy toward the A Cause for Hope project.

This project aims to contribute funds for myeloproliferative disease research through the collection and resale of handmade items. Donations go to the MPD Foundation and 100% of new funds raised goes toward research. What better way to honor and involve my mom than through incorporating her love of things handmade. To date, we have collected close to $650 through the sale of these gifted pieces at craft fairs and in our Etsy shop.

My mom created over 50 pieces for the project so far to give back and help others with her disease. The next phases of my mom’s illness are still unknown, but she continues to fight, be strong and create her beautiful handmade pieces.

I encourage you to learn more about A Cause for Hope and if you feel compelled, to spread the word about our mission.

Laura used to work with my mom at a doctor’s office in our home town. Since learning about my mom’s illness, she has followed the ups and downs. Laura – thank you so much for this opportunity and for being such an amazing and supportive friend.

How have you discovered hope in difficult times? We’d love to hear your strength and story.

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Authenticity and Cultural Creativity: Guest Post by Tara Joyce

We’re thrilled to share this guest post by Tara Joyce. Tara is a writer and strategic coach and explores Cultural Creativity and dream business over on her blog, Rise of the Innerpreneur. You can also follow Tara on Twitter.

“Values are the best single predictor of real behavior.” – Dr. Paul Ray and Dr. Sherry Anderson, The Cultural Creatives

The values that rule a Cultural Creative

The defined values that dictate a Cultural Creative’s behavior are:

■         Authenticity, actions must be consistent with words and beliefs

■         Engaged action and whole process learning; seeing the world as interwoven and connected

■         Idealism and activism

■         Globalism and ecology

■         The importance of women

The value that rules You

Reading this list, I can’t help but think that the list should begin and end with authenticity, as, to me, it lies at the root of all the other values. I can’t help thinking that without knowing your Self and what you truly want, and acting on it, the rest of these values would not manifest.

But that’s just my perspective.

The value that rules Me

I see my authenticity as the roots of my values and that everything else springs forth from what I find inside. I’m driven by me, being true to my Self.

Even as a teen, when I couldn’t have been less sure of my Self, I learned quickly that not listening to Me was the worst thing I could do. That not honouring Me felt worse than anything that people could whisper, or that a boyfriend could write in Sharpie in our high school’s stairwell.

And now as a woman-child of 28, I can consciously identify that my need for authenticity shapes everything in my world.

I seek it in my relationships, in my work, in my self-development, in my interactions with nature… I’m always exploring my Self, and my world and our stories about it. I’ve been slipping into Cultural Creativity my whole life.

It’s all about me and I won’t apologize for it

In my life, everything begins and ends with Me. For I know, if I tell my Self the truth about what I want and need from my life, the rest will fall into place.

My answers are within Me.

What are the values that drive you, that are core to shaping your world?

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