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From TJCC’s Contributors: Lessons From Our Favorite Books

“A good book on your shelf is a friend that turns its back on you and remains a friend.” ~Author Unknown

At TJCC we achieve collective learning through the deep conversations and intimate connections that first germinate in our posts, then blossom through comments and emails. It’s a natural fit for us to have an ongoing feature where contributors and editors share those resources that reflect the more personal part of our cultural learning center.

Why Books?

Why didn’t we choose to highlight our authenticity by noting our favorite artist, our favorite film, our favorite cheese?

We might someday. But let’s start with books, the origins of our formal classroom learning. And mix it up with life lessons.

Books we love most tell the true tale of who we are. It is in between the pages where we can examine fragile thoughts without breaking them, or handle incendiary ideas without fear of getting burned.

Books have told stories, delivered valuable lessons and harbored the best and worst of humanity for hundreds of years. Textbooks, e-books, biographies and anthologies. Children’s books, language and poetry books.

Books are some of the sharpest tools in the cultural learning toolbox. By writing them, we create ideas. By reading them, we learn.

Books have the power to educate and unify. Regardless of cultural differences.

A List with Lessons

We went beyond listing the books; we wanted to share what our favorite books truly meant to us by way of the lasting impact contained in their message.

Through sharing, we initiate conversation – a single person, in small to large groups, and through societies scattered across the globe. We gathered our collective wisdom to teach one another – and share here with you.

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Frank Mundo

My favorite book is Ask the Dust by Los Angeles writer John Fante. Reading this book changed my life forever. I was 18 years old and I loved to read and write, but this book made me want to be a writer. There’s just something magical about the writing: it’s poetry and prose — it’s art and craft — even now. I read it every couple of years, and each time I find something new and more wonderful than the last. Like Charles Bukowski, Fante was my God in the darkest and lonliest time of my life. I can’t imagine a more important book to me than Ask the Dust.

Christa Avampato

My favorite book is Alice in Wonderland. For a recommended resource, I’d list a book I just finished: Inside Obama’s Brain. The book has incredible life lessons for everyone, no matter what we do for a living or how we spend our free time. Obama’s confidence and belief in his destiny are powerful motivators. I just spoke to the author for Examiner.com and what surprised him most about Obama is Obama’s ability to imagine how all the different routes he could take in life would manifest in the long run. A tremendous use of analytical thinking to build idealistic dreams.

Tara Joyce

The book is Where the Sidewalk Ends by Shel Silverstein. Why? As a kid, I don’t think there was a single book I read more. I would repeatedly take this collection of poems out of the library and pour over them like I was reading them for the first time. Reflecting on the emotions this book stirs in me today, I observe that Shel’s energetic, whimsical and hopeful writing-style, and the eccentric drawings that complimented his poems, connect with my need for authentic self-expression, support my belief that my dreams can be shaped into reality, and provide me with assurance that even in adulthood, I can still be child-like and fun-loving.

Sean Platt

I can’t possibly pick a favorite book, as I’ve been inhaling pages since I could string sentences together. However, I’ll pick a book by Mark Halprin, Solider of the Great War, since it was the first book that floored me with it’s poetic language. I remember reading it and thinking, How can anyone articulate simple thought with such majesty? But he did. I think in a quiet way, that book had something to do with my eventually moving my own pen across the page.

Elisa Philips

My favorite book right now is Outliers by Malcom Gladwell. Reinforced the need to think differently about the way we educate children and foster talents which take 10+ years to form. Every child should be educated (build more schools not jails) and the standards for schools should be taken up about 5 notches. Bridge the gap between public and private school. If kids in the Bronx can do it, anyone can.

Dani at Positively Present

As an avid reader, it’s really hard to pin down my absolute favorite book. It’s hard to even think of my top five favorite books. So, instead of discussing the book that’s my favorite, I’m going to talk about the book that’s influenced me the most lately.

On a recent business trip, I picked up a copy of Positivity by Barbara Frederickson. I’d been meaning to read this book for awhile, considering I have a blog that focuses on positivity, but I’d never gotten around to reading it. When I saw it propped up in a small bookshop staring me in the face, I decided it was high time I picked up a copy. And, man, am I glad I did. The book has impacted in more in the past few days that almost any book I’ve read. I can hardly put it down and my mind is racing with all of the great information, most of which I can attest to first hand. It’s the kind of book I believe anyone and everyone interested in changing their lives for the better should read.

I could go on forever about books I love (and for more on those, check out the “Brilliant Books” section on www.positivelypresent.com), but this one has had a tremendous impact on me lately and I would recommend it to anyone. If you haven’t already read it, pick up a copy ASAP!

Amanda Hirsch

Favorite book: The Artist’s Way, by Julia Cameron

What I learned: The Artist’s Way is my gospel – it unlocked the artist trapped inside me, and set me on the path of living my life as a work of art.

Kellie Fitzgerald

My favorite book is constantly evolving. Most recently, it is A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini. While reading this book, I was reminded that the female spirit and the relationships that we form with one another are incredibly resilient. I was moved by Mariam & Laila’s ability to find pleasure in simple things like a cup of tea or the moonlight on a warm night amidst their life of unimaginable loss, violence, injustice and suffering.

Stephanie Finigan

Fave book: (such a hard question!): A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius by Dave Eggers. What did I learn: That geeks and misfits really do end up as the cool kids you admire and wish you were friends with. Oh and one more just b/c I loved this book so so much (who didn’t??): She’s Come Undone by Wally Lamb. I learned: There is always hope!

Join the conversation! What’s your favorite book? What did you learn?

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The 80s Fashion Revival Can’t Buy Me Love

A guest post by Kellie Fitzgerald.

Does the recent 80’s fashion revival scare the hell out of anyone else? Anyone, Anyone, Bueller?

It seems to me that the recent passing of 80’s movie master and narrator of my youth, John Hughes, coincides with fashion designers getting all nostalgic about the decade that I deem a fashion disaster.
I understand a bit of this nostalgia, I still laugh at Long Duk Dong (“What’sa happenin’, Hot Stuff?”) and cry at the birthday cake scene every time I watch Sixteen Candles. However, it does not make me want to go out and dress that way again.
When I look at current style spreads featuring this 80’s revival (such as here and here) I get a dreadful feeling that designers are backsliding with a bad ex-boyfriend and only remembering the good times. I stand back, the overly concerned friend, wanting to shake them and yell “Don’t do it, can’t you see he hasn’t changed! He’s still selfish, greedy and Republican!”

Even still, I am forced to watch the train wreck unfold. Magazines and stores are displaying fall collections which include strong shoulders that would make the ladies of Dynasty bow their heads in shame, ripped acid wash denim and cutout dresses that belong backstage at a Whitesnake concert, and adult-sized tutus that only Madonna and Carrie Bradshaw should be allowed to wear.
Because I feel so strongly about this, I am going to sacrifice my own pride and share an 80’s fashion80's fashion photo from my adolescence.
Here I am, looking Pretty in Pink, on my first day of school back in the late 80’s. The hair, the shoulder pads, the weaved bandana necklace, the tiered denim skirt- the horror. When I look at this picture, the pubescent awkwardness is almost palatable.
I feel the insecurity that my much deliberated upon first-day-of-school ensemble might not be cool enough. (I can also feel the scratch of the synthetic fiber that made up those gigantic shoulder pads.) I smell the combo of AquaNet and Aussie Sprunch Spray. I remember, I laugh, and then I thank the Style Gods that I have grown up and moved on!
Clearly this 80’s fashion revival is not for me- but why do I care if others go there? Two simple reasons.
First, these trendy pieces are not figure flattering for 85% of the female population. I believe it’s safe to say that liquid leather leggings, jersey knit cutout mini dresses, oversized tees, and acid wash skinny jeans will only look flattering on svelte fashion-forward females who were born sometime after the 80’s- or Sienna Miller (who could wear a dishrag and look gorgeous).
One of my guiding principles of personal style is to dress for your figure first, and then consider following the trends. Something that fits well with a lovely silhouette transcends trends and projects an air of confidence that was blatantly missing from exhibit A, my first-day-of-school picture.

Second, the shelf life of these pieces is sure to be short. As my personal style matures, I find myself building a wardrobe composed of well-tailored basics that will last for years- and adding trends and seasonal flavor through shoes and accessories. I encourage others to do the same. It is a classic “splurge on this, not that” shopping strategy, and these 80’s revival pieces just are not a strategic fit.
Despite everything that I have said here, if you still must incorporate the 80’s into your fall wardrobe, I urge you to buy your pieces at trendy and inexpensive retailers such as H&M; or Zara. br />Oh, and please take some pictures so that we can laugh at your outfit in a few years.

Kellie Fitzgerald is a Wife, Daughter, Sister, Friend, Googler, Fashionista, Dog Lover, & Wannabe Political Pundit.
Kellie previously ran a personal shopping business under the sassy alliteration “Style Savvy”. She secretly wants to be Stacy London from TLC’s “What Not to Wear.” and still does occasional personal shopping and styling on-demand.
You can read more about Kellie and what she’s up to on her blog, Places to Put Stuff.

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Isn’t It Iconic…Don’t You Think?

A guest post by Kellie Fitzgerald.

Lately, I am really into the cinched waist. I love belts around dresses, a belt over a simple tank top, and belted cardigan sweaters (yes, sweaters in the summer – since most commercial buildings insist on an air conditioning setting right around 60 degrees).

Last weekend while visiting Chicago, my Mom commented on my new-found obsession with belts. She said, “you know this is because of Michelle Obama, she influenced the resurgence of belts.”

While I still hate admitting when my Mom is right, I do agree that our lovely First Lady (cue JT) is bringing belted back.

Whether it is with her clear plastic belt or her black leather studded belt (my personal favorite), we almost always see Mrs. Obama with a cinched waist. Michelle Obama

I am certainly not the first person to notice Michelle Obama’s wardrobe, or even her belts for that matter. There are entire blogs dedicated to following who, what, and where Mrs. O is wearing. So why, when I have an opportunity to write something original and thought-provoking about style for TJCC, do I default to the attire of the First Lady?

It is simply because, as a lover of fashion and politics, I feel like I am watching fashion history unfold daily right in front of my eyes. And I find it extremely exciting and inspiring.

To be honest, before our lovely First Lady came into my life I was starting to get a little discouraged that I hadn’t yet found my style icon. Sure, there were plenty of trendsetters who inspired me for periods of time (Kate Moss, Madonna, Heidi Klum, JLo, SJP) and many designers who made beautiful things that I loved (Dianne Von Furstenberg, Nanette Lepore, all of the Italians)- but there was no one person that I could deem iconic.

I also started to feel like mainstream fashion was becoming difficult to relate to (perhaps that’s just me showing my age). Fourteen year olds already know who Christian Louboutin is because they are putting together couture ensembles on Polyvore using an app on their iPhone which they keep inside of their gigantic Juicy Couture bag.

(By the way, when I was fourteen a splurge was a logo t-shirt from The Gap and the biggest fashion brand that I knew was Liz Claiborne.)

Hannah Montana and Taylor Swift have a combined age of 34 and they are walking the red carpet in couture gowns and borrowed jewels that most women won’t get to wear in a lifetime. Fifty year old women in the suburbs are sporting Ed Hardy tank tops and skinny jeans and celebrating the label “cougar.” Where was elegance, sophistication, femininity, and clean modern classics?

And then came Michelle.

Pairing JCrew with Jimmy Choo, I find her look to be both inspiring and attainable. I often notice her photographed on a multiple-day trip wearing the same pieces in different ways (how realistic of her!). She combines simple, well-tailored pieces with beautiful belts and brooches; bright colors and luxurious fabrics with (gasp!) bare arms and legs.

Looks like I finally got my style icon — and a stack of new belts. That was a cinch.

Kellie Fitzgerald is a Wife, Daughter, Sister, Friend, Googler, Fashionista, Dog Lover, & Wannabe Political Pundit.

Kellie previously ran a personal shopping business under the sassy alliteration “Style Savvy”. She secretly wants to be Stacy London from TLC’s “What Not to Wear.” and still does occasional personal shopping and styling on-demand.

You can read more about Kellie and what she’s up to on her blog, Places to Put Stuff.

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