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The Geography of Love: Interview with Author Glenda Burgess

I’m always excited when I read amazing, powerful books – and then have the honor of interviewing the authors who created them.

Glenda Burgess is the author of The Geography of Love, which was named one of The Ten Best Books of 2008 by the Seattle Post-Intelligencer and a finalist for the 2008 Books for a Better Life Award.

Burgess boasts an amazing career, having been selected as a Presidential Management Fellow, a presitigious government executive program initiated under President Jimmy Carter.

She then completed almost ten years of service for the U.S. State Department and left to study creative writing. Like many other authors featured here, Burgess took the leap to follow her passion.

Burgess’ most recent book, The Geography of Love, is an amazing memoir that chronicles a real-life love story – not the love stories we grow up with, that promise the journey is easy and clear. While reading the memoir, and even after, I used it as a tool to reflect of the various love relationships that have been a part of the fabric of my own life.

In my opinion, memoirs that connect with readers in such a way ensures a deep bond between reader and author are the true measure of a book’s success – and The Geography of Love clearly succeeds.

I recently had the opportunity to connect with Burgess about The Geography of Love, her experiences as a writer and her suggestions for other writers and aspiring authors.

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Laura: When did you realize that you wanted to be a writer? Have you always known this was what you wanted to do?

Glenda: I connected to the world of books as a young reader maxing out my treasured library card. The stacks of adventure stories I brought home from the library every Saturday were a way for me to expand my world by escaping into the magic of storytelling.

But there was also something compelling about the physical books themselves. The worn covers, the sense other hands had turned the pages, the idea that stories have this timeless and independent life waiting to be released by a reader. In fourth grade I entered a poem in a local newspaper contest. The paper printed it and paid me a dollar – I was hooked – I was a writer!

It certainly was a long apprenticeship – creative writing workshops, writing conference seminars, a small forest of bad drafts. (I have to pause here and thank HP for inventing the 5p Laser Printer in the early eighties. It just DID NOT die.)

The best advice is still that old saw – do anything else if you can. But it does seem true that the successful writer is the one that doesn’t quit. If you write, and keep writing, your craft inevitably improves, as well as your understanding of storytelling. What counts is the heart of the writer – and the joy found in the work itself.

Laura: Your powerful memoir, The Geography of Love, has won a number of awards, including the Robert Hughes award for literary fiction. Did you ever imagine you’d have such widespread success?

Glenda: “There are certain moments, sometimes just words, that part time. Who we were then from Who we are now.”

These are the words I use to describe the shift in my life that led to the writing of The Geography of Love. Falling in love – and the loss of love – forced me to come to terms with myself and for want of a better word, fate.

Writing memoir is a way of putting into words a personal emotional landscape, and in my effort to be honest, open, vulnerable, I think I mirrored something of what we all feel to be true of relationships. We hope for love, risk for it. We deal with life in the raw, hoping and believing in the possibility of magic. That this book is so well loved simply stuns me.

I have a tremendous appreciation for my readers, who continue to recommend the book to their friends and family, and send me letters I treasure. Readers teach me so much about how we live our stories. I should add here that the soft cover release is scheduled for August of 2009.

Laura: In my opinion, memoirs are an interesting genre, in that they require writers to delve deep into themselves to tell their own story, not someone else’s or another character’s. What would you say was the most challenging part of writing this memoir? The most rewarding?

Glenda: Memoir is a form of literature, like poetry, that invites the reader deeper into the experience of reflection. It is different to write memoir than a novel, because while memoir – meaning “my story” from the French – is experience translated through personal interpretation, it is nonetheless a narrative based in historical time, place and event. A world that is real. This is one of memoir’s appealing aspects.

The most difficult aspect of writing memoir is managing perspective – both as an observer of one’s own intimate experience, and in chronicling the larger canvas of the narrative. The subjective and the objective point of view frame and shadow each other constantly in memoir, and the author must know which is which at all times.

Memory offers the relative truth of an experience, whereas the facts of an event are the foundation, the anchor – even when mis-remembered. The difference in what happened and how it is remembered exposes another nuance of understanding. It is the search for meaningful truth that makes memoir both special and daunting.

I thought a lot about the polar roles of serendipity and chaos in life – the kind of chaos that is accidental and devastating. Mystery and circumstance shape our lives, yet there is a deep balance within us that continuously brings our choices into equal measure. I feel differently about the landscape of love than when I began my story.

Laura: What guidance can you offer new writers looking to start their writing practice – and most importantly, keep their practice going?

Glenda: Writers find their practice in how they live life itself. There is a famous Jay McInerney anecdote about jotting down the opening lines of “Bright Lights Big City” while sitting on his porch steps in a wrecked dawn, channeling the famous “you” of his story to answer his own “What am I doing here?” Sometimes the writing practice is the writing finding you.

Carry a notebook and pen. Write when story makes your fingers itch and whenever opportunity presents. I know writers who begin the day with essays to encourage, or “set up” a desired attitude or goal for the day, and others who free associate on the page, or explore writing exercises to step out of routine and invite in creative genesis.

Journal writing is where I find reflection and synthesis, from which other writing emerges. Never one to sit at the desk a proscribed time period to produce a proscribed amount of words, I’ve learned to wait on inspiration. Trust those fallow periods. In the course of writing three novels, I’ve discovered non-writing stretches to be periods of great gestation as the deeper mind turns the story over.

I do believe in deadlines. The mind is a lazy thing; as much as it loves the all-cons
uming bliss of creation, it doesn’t want to do the work. Deadlines give a good kick toward the chair. If you don’t have a deadline, make one. There are writers I know who use scheduled stays at writing retreats for this purpose – precious time not to be squandered.

The writing practice that serves your life serves your writing best.

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The Geography of Love will be released in softcover on August 4. You can find out more about Glenda Burgess, her works and The Geography of Love on her site. I have also included the Amazon.com link here.

Many thanks to Glenda for taking the time to share her story with us.

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What Would You Do if You Ran the World? Laura Interviews Author Shelly Rachanow

Like many of the awesome authors at Laura Reviews, Shelly Rachanow is another great example of a person who simply followed her writing dreams.

The title of Rachanow’s first book, If Women Ran the World, Sh*t Would Get Done, made me want to fly to Shelly’s house to meet her.

And, she recently released her second book, What Would You Do if You Ran the World?: Everyday Ideas from Women Who Want to Make the World a Better Place.

But, Rachanow didn’t start out as a writer – but she knew writing was her passion and she made the jump from her career in law. Sounds like a theme we’ve heard from alot of folks here at Laura Reviews – both readers and interviewees.

I found both of Shelly’s books to be fun, thoughtful, creative and educational. And, don’t worry guys: as a practicing people-ist, I’d recommend the books to both men and women.

Exciting note: The end of this post includes The Fun Part (as my Pilates teacher calls 50 sit-ups in 60 seconds). You’re invited to share your ideas on what you would do if you ran the world, but no physical exercise will be required.

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Laura Cococcia: I absolutely love the title of your first book, If Women Ran the World, Sh*t Would Get Done. I know approximately 216 women (and a bunch of men) who’d agree with me. What inspired you to write this first novel?

Shelly Rachanow: While it’s true that the title came to me in a flash one morning when my ordinarily supportive boyfriend refused to take out the trash (can anyone else relate?), the real inspiration was my mom and the millions of women around the world who do so much for so many each and every day.

My mom raised three kids (one with a disability who still requires daily care), worked outside the home, fought for better laws for the disabled, and still managed to cook dinner every night. She often says, “I don’t do anything amazing. I just do what needs to get done.” I think the real truth – for her and for all women – is that our ability to get so much done each and every day (often without complaint) is what makes women amazing in the first place.

Laura Cococcia: What kind of feedback have you received from readers? Do you ever get feedback from male fans?

Shelly Rachanow: The feedback has been really incredible! As women, we have this horrible habit of focusing on the one or two things we didn’t get done in our day, instead of feeling good about the many things we were able to get done. I’ve heard from thousands of women who have really appreciated how much this book encourages them to celebrate themselves and their accomplishments.

And I’ve had some really wonderful feedback from men, especially at the events I’ve done. I’d say 95% of men who see the book title have the same reaction. They pause for a moment (and usually smile or chuckle), and then they say something like, “You know, that’s so true. In fact, my wife…” And they launch into a great story about their wife, their mom, their sister or another woman they know. It’s been wonderful to see how many people really do recognize how much women get done…even if we don’t always recognize it ourselves.

Laura Cococcia: You pursued a career in law and then took the leap into writing. How has the change been rewarding and/or challenging?

Shelly Rachanow: I was really unhappy practicing law. I hit a point where I didn’t think I could do it for one more day, much less the rest of my life. After a friend in his late twenties passed away unexpectedly, I did a lot of thinking and I asked myself, “What do you really want to do?”

Writing books was always the answer for me, and I finally decided the only way it would ever happen was if I took a chance. In that sense, giving myself permission to live the life I really wanted has been one of the most rewarding decisions I’ve ever made.

There have definitely been challenges, too. It was scary figuring out how to earn a living writing while also working on my first book idea (I temped and did technical writing). And there were plenty of self-doubt moments. But for me, I had hit a place where I just wasn’t willing to settle, be it in a career or in life overall. I feel really grateful that I gave myself that chance and that permission to pursue my dreams!

Laura Cococcia: Your second book, What Would You Do If You Ran the World?: Everyday Ideas from Women Who Want to Make the World a Better Place, just came out in February – congratulations! Was the experience of writing this book different from your first one?

Shelly Rachanow: The main thing that was different was the timing. Since I already had a publisher, I wrote the majority of the second book after receiving an offer, versus writing the whole book first and then looking for a publisher to submit to. But there were also many similarities.

Like with If Women Ran the World…, I had the chance to meet, interview, and research amazing women who are kicking butt and making the world better. Writing the second book made me even more inspired by the things we can do and are doing to make a difference!

Laura Cococcia: And the traditional Laura Reviews question: What words of wisdom can you give to other aspiring writers – whether they’re career writers or dreaming of becoming a writer?

Shelly Rachanow: For anyone who aspires to write, I say start today. It wasn’t that long ago that I was in the same position. I learned that sometimes a fresh start really can be the start of something amazing.

You don’t have to quit your job or make major changes all at once if you’re not ready. But you can find a way to start writing now, even if you just start journaling for ten minutes a day. Take that first step. It’s the only way you can get somewhere new!

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Thanks so much, Shelly, for sharing your expertise – and special thanks, again, to my Examiner.com colleague, Frank Mundo, who introduced me to Shelly.

To read more about Shelly and both of her books, you can visit Shelly’s site.

The Fun Part
What would you do if you ran the world? Just give us one or two cool ideas and we’ll keep a running list to share with Shelly.

I’ll start. I would:

1) Mandate literacy programs globally.

2) Demand that Robert Plant and Jimmy Page perform a private concert for me and 100 of my closest friends.

3) Make red velvet cupcakes, homemade chocolate chip cookies and Diet Coke a part of the food pyramid. Today’s post in The Onion states that the FDA just approved second helpings, so I have renewed faith in the evolution of the food pyramid to include said food items in the near future. g>

The floor is open – share your world-changing ideas!

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Interview with Jennifer Weiner: Author of Best Friends Forever

Who is your best friend?

Maybe he or she is a childhood playmate, a college roommate or a colleague. Perhaps you have more than just one best friend – you have 3, 5 or 79.

Regardless of the number, there’s one thing that remains universally true: we all have different things we look for in a best friend and reasons why we stay together over the years.

Jennifer Weiner brings that message to life in her amazing new novel, Best Friends Forever. It will be released on July 14. I’m so thrilled I had the chance to dig into it before the big day.

I’ve been a Jennifer Weiner fan from the start. One of my own best friends, Chrisanne, who went to school with Jennifer in Simsbury (Conn.), introduced me to Weiner’s first novel, Good In Bed.

Since then, I’ve been hooked. Each of her novels has played a different and important role in my life, as well as the lives of my friends and family members who are also die-hard fans.

Weiner knocks it out of the park, once again, with Best Friends Forever. She introduces us to Addie and Valerie, best friends who have been estranged since high school. Now in their thirties, Addie and Valerie have each lived different lives yet still maintain their distinct personalities. Through their journey in the novel, which starts at the scene of a crime and ends – well – you’ll have to read for yourselves – Addie and Valerie explore the dynamics of their friendship at every turn.

Using well-grounded, vivid, and often humorous metaphors, suspenseful foreshadowing and realistic characterizations, Weiner kept me turning the page. Since she is a description expert, Weiner’s writing even helped me see elements of myself in both women as I reflected on relationships with my own best friends.

Some people hate when I tell them this; others love it. But I do mark up my books when I read memorable parts so I can go back to them later (I hear gasps).

Enter markup #12: One part that really spoke to me was when Addie is responding to Valerie’s request to borrow some clothes in their adult phase of their friendship. Weiner uses multiple, relatable metaphors to describe Addie’s feelings of pent up resentment toward Valerie while sharing Addie’s thought process and reconciliation of these emotions.

We all have likely been on that emotional rollercoaster with friends or family. How does Weiner describe it so well, so honestly and in such a down-to-earth way?
She just knows how.
I’m thrilled that Jennifer and I had the chance to connect about Best Friends Forever on the eve of its release.

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Laura Cococcia: You’ve had a long, successful career as a writer and have studied with very well known authors, including Toni Morrison and Joyce Carol Oates. What’s some of the best advice you’ve received from various writing mentors?

Jennifer Weiner: Joyce Carol Oates emphasized the importance not just of writing, but of rewriting – that’s the place where the magic really happened.

John McPhee taught me a tremendous amount about the craft of writing – how to structure a piece, how to balance dialogue and description, how to hook the reader in the first sentence and keep him or her reading until the final paragraph.

And Toni Morrison used to read her students’ work out loud, and hearing her read it made me believe that it was good (of course, Toni Morrison being Toni Morrison, she could have been reading my grocery list and I would have thought, ‘Genius!’ She’s one of the world’s all-time great readers).

Laura Cococcia: I’ve loved all of your books and know numerous other people who’ve felt both your characters and writing style are easy to relate to. Where do you get the ideas for your stories?

Jennifer Weiner: Thanks! I think I get inspiration the same places most other writers do: my real life, my wacky family, my wonderful friends, and lots of eavesdropping at the park or at the carpool pickup line.

Laura Cococcia: Your second novel, In Her Shoes, was made into a film with amazing actresses, including Shirley MacLaine, Cameron Diaz and Toni Collette. Did you ever imagine, when you were writing this or your other books, that you’d achieve such success?

Jennifer Weiner: I did not see this coming. And neither did anyone related to me! When I was working on Good In Bed, I’d tell my mother that I was writing a novel, and she would drape one hand over her forehead in an affected manner and say, “Oh, yes, your novel,” in a tone indicating her utter disbelief that such a thing existed.

When I finished the book, all I wanted was to get it published, and when I signed a deal with a publisher, all I wanted was to see it in bookstores and know that I’d written something that someone thought had value. I figured twelve people would buy it, and I’d know six of them from Weight Watchers, and the rest would be relatives…so no, I never imagined this kind of success.

I thought writing would be my lifetime hobby, the thing I did on the side of my paying job (which was journalism, which I loved). I feel incredibly lucky to be able to have made fiction my career.

Laura Cococcia: Best Friends Forever goes on sale in July. Any chance you can give readers a brief sneak preview?

Jennifer Weiner: You can find the first chapter by searching for my name at simonsays.com.

Laura Cococcia: What advice can you offer other aspiring writers – whether they’re looking to write fiction, nonfiction or poetry – to simply get their writing practices started and to sustain it?

Jennifer Weiner: The difference between people who believe they have books inside of them and those who actually write books is sheer cussed persistence – the ability to make yourself work at your craft, every day – the belief, even in the face of obstacles, that you’ve got something worth saying. I also believe that if you’re really a writer, you’ll write, and that nobody could stop you.

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Best Friends Forever will be released on July 14th. You can click here to read more – and order your copy – on the Amazon.com page.

For more about Jennifer Weiner, her fantastic novels and upcoming appearances, you can visit her site at http://www.jenniferweiner.com/, her Facebook fan page or follow her on Twitter.

Thanks Jennifer – you’re awesome!

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Interview with Hugh MacLeod: Author of Ignore Everybody And 39 Other Keys to Creativity

Just a few weeks ago, I read a post on Seth Godin’s blog – part of my daily blog reading regimen – referencing Hugh MacLeod’s new book Ignore Everybody And 39 Other Keys to Creativity.

The post’s title grabbed me instantly. Godin wrote: Should Hugh Swear So Much?

After I read the post, I instantly went to Amazon. I was now on a mission – I had to read this book. Why? Yes, because I like to be creative, as most of you reading this already know. But also – no one swears anymore – and Hugh goes there. A small part of me just likes it when people get the real truth out of their mouths.

Also, I recently had the opportunity to connect with Hugh directly to get his take on writing, creativity and his own favorite parts of the book.

Before I get to the book review and interview, here’s a bit about Hugh. He’s a cartoonist who initially worked as an advertising copywriter. Years before blogging became the “it” thing, he started his own blog gapingvoid.com (awesome, by the way).

Over the years, he continued to blog about his interest and expertise in marketing – fast forward to today, and Ignore Everybody, his first book, is all the rage.

Ignore Everybody isn’t about coming up with a big idea. And it doesn’t reveal the secret formula for innovation.

It is about transforming one’s mindset to think differently about creativity. For anyone. In a “keep it real” way.

Hugh’s masterful writing style instantly reflects his own creative expertise. And, the book features his cartoons (see included image).

Some reviewers have called the cartoons “racy” – if you’re ok with racy (as I am), you’ll laugh out loud. Which I did on the bus the other day when I was reading it. People looked at me. Whatever. I think they were jealous.

Ignore Everybody includes the details of of Hugh’s 40 ‘keys to creativity’ – I’ll share a few of my favorites:

1. Sing in your own voice.

2. The idea doesn’t have to be big. It just has to be yours.

3. The best way to get approval is not to need it.

4. If your business plan depends on suddenly being “discovered” by some big shot, your plan will probably fail.

5. None of this is rocket science.

And here are a few words, directly from Hugh.

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Laura Cococcia: You started out as a copywriter, moved on to drawing cartoons and eventually it all came together at your very cool blog “Gaping Void.” Did you always know you wanted to be a writer?

Hugh MacLeod: No, I always wanted to be a small businessman. But writing paid the bills…

Laura Cococcia: I’ve listed my five favorite of your ‘keys to creativity’ above – though I actually like and relate to all of them. Is there one that has “stuck” with you the most over the years or made the biggest impact on your work?

Hugh MacLeod: I like The Sex & Cash Theory (Chapter 8: “Keep Your Day Job”):

“THE SEX & CASH THEORY: “The creative person basically has two kinds of jobs: One is the sexy, creative kind. Second is the kind that pays the bills. Sometimes the task in hand covers both bases, but not often. This tense duality will always play center stage. It will never be transcended.”

I think being “creative” professionally gets easier when you finally grow up, when you finally start treating it like a job, and not some kind of abstract fantasy to one day aspire to.

Laura Cococcia: Everyone always has an opinion about everything. I’ve noticed, in my short time writing this blog, that once you get it something out there (blog, idea, book, etc.), it’s open to loads of praise (which feels great) and a few “opinions” about how it can be improved. I think constructive feedback is definitely useful, but how we keep it from derailing us (and our egos) while working on our creative projects?

Hugh MacLeod: In any creative venture, there’s always going to be the opinions of others, both positive and negative. Both can be a distraction. Keeping them in perspective is really just matter of practice.

Laura Cococcia: Finally, what advice do you have for writers or other creative types looking to start their own business, writing projects, blogs, etc.?

Hugh MacLeod: Keep doing it. It’s better to write 50 words every day, than 2,000 words every month.

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We all get stuck in the creativity quagmire sometimes. Me too. Ignore Everybody just gave me a way to think differently about how to get out of it and on with it. I’m pretty sure it will do the same for you – whether you’re an astronaut, farmer or yes, even a writer.

Check out Hugh’s site at http://www.gapingvoid.com/ to read more about Hugh and the book. And be sure to check out his cartoons. I actually just ordered some of my own business cards.

You can read more about Ignore Everybody at Amazon.com – here. And then check back with us to share your own favorites. Don’t forget.

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Interview with Laura Dave: Author of The Divorce Party

It’s always cool when I get to meet other people who share my first name.

It’s even cooler is when that person is a nationally acclaimed author and an all-around fantastic person.

I had the privilege of meeting Laura Dave in Chicago two years ago. She came to our office to discuss her first novel, London Is The Best City In America (fabulous, by the way).

And, I just finished her most recent novel, The Divorce Party.

Which is fabulous novel #2.

In addition, Dave’s writing has appeared in The New York Times, Glamour, Self, Redbook and The New York Observer. And, in August 2008, Cosmopolitan named her as one of the eight “Fun and Fearless Phenoms” of 2008.

The Divorce Party is a fictional tale set in the Hamptons, featuring the voices of two women, Gwyn and Maggie, facing challenges in their relationships with the men in their life. The novel is centered around a divorce party – which is actually a growing trend that acknowledges divorce in a celebratory way, honoring the positive past of a couple.

Laura Dave has a magical way with words. The novel explores the inner thoughts of not only the two female protagonists, but also intricately characterizes their male companions (Nate and Thomas) in a fair and real way. The interactions among them all just make sense. Using humor, wit, and dialogue that fit together like puzzle pieces, Dave makes The Divorce Party poignant and down to earth.

Honestly, I actually felt like I was a part of the story at every turn. And for me, the book was even a bit educational. I couldn’t put it down (as you’ll see in the interview below) and even underlined parts of the book that I want to go back to.

One more cool part worth mentioning: The Divorce Party has already been optioned by Jennifer Aniston’s production company. Wow.

I was extremely excited that Laura and I recently reconnected to chat about The Divorce Party and the evolution of her writing career and experiences.

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Laura Cococcia: I absolutely loved The Divorce Party – I literally could not put it down, except for when I had to go to bed! What was the most rewarding part about the process of writing The Divorce Party?

Laura Dave: When I sit down to write, I don’t know how a novel is going to end. I start with a question–and go about the hard and fun work of getting to know my characters and figuring out how they are going to answer that question for themselves.

In The Divorce Party, I had two main characters–a woman struggling to begin a marriage, and another woman trying to gracefully end hers–both asking the question: how hard should I fight for the person I love? It was very rewarding to see them both find the answer to the question that was ultimately going to lead to their happiness.

Laura Cococcia: Your first book, London Is the Best City In America, is another one of my favorites. You’ve received notable acclaim for both novels – did you ever imagine you’d achieve such success?

Laura Dave: I have always loved writing, since I was a little girl. And, now, I wake up every day (or almost every day!) grateful that I get to do it for a living. I love getting notes from readers, love talking to book clubs. It is such a great gift, I can’t begin to express it.

I also always say that no matter what happens with the next book, I will still be writing and reading every morning. Trying to tell stories. It’s just what I love to do most.

Laura Cococcia: When did you know you wanted to be a writer? Did you ever think you’d have a different career path?

Laura Dave: When I was in college, I played with the idea of becoming a lawyer. And a philosopher. And a scientist. And just about everything else that allowed me to consider changing my major a hundred times!

But, in a serious way, all I ever wanted to do was write. I wrote my first story when I was in third grade. It was called Runaway Cruise. Ever since then, I’ve been hooked on telling stories.

Laura Cococcia: From your experience, what words of wisdom can you offer other writers who are looking to publish their own books, articles or even blogs? How can we keep improving our writing?

Laura Dave: Writing is rewriting. No one in the history of the world has ever written a perfect tome in one take. So be easy on yourself. Write the first draft for you, and you alone, without worrying about whether anything you’re coming up with is good. Those kind of concerns are important for the second draft or the fifth or the fifteenth.

But your only responsibility with the first draft is to get your story out, and to keep going. Keeping going is half the battle—get up early a few mornings a week, go to a writers conference, carve out time on the weekend. Find a way to do that, and the rest will start to take care of itself.

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Never one to skimp on emphasizing important points, I truly encourage you to check out The Divorce Party and get back to us on what you think.

To read more about Laura Dave, you can visit her at: www.lauradave.com.

And, to read more about The Divorce Party, here’s the link to the book’s Amazon.com page.

Thanks Laura – can’t wait to see what comes next!

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